Finding Long-Distance Proof

When your partner is in a different location to you, it is easy to let the element of doubt plague your mind. While you are busy working or keeping the home and caring for children, there is always the possibility that something is happening behind your back.

The temptation is strong because the geographical location enables many spouses to have indiscretions with little fear of being caught. This is especially true when the relationship is over a long distance, perhaps separate countries, as you don't have the comfort and reassurance of physical contact with your partner on a regular basis.

I guess this is why they call relationships blind faith. There are no guarantees what is happening, so you have to rely on your instincts and faith. But what happens when this is not enough? What happens when the faith you have in your marriage is not enough to overcome your lingering fears?

The first thing most people feel is fear and guilt. Fear of the unknown, fear of the humility and people knowing something that you don't. Fear of the possibility that your partner doesn't love you anymore and wants to be with someone else. And then there's guilt, at losing faith in your relationship and doubting your partner's integrity. What if you got it wrong? How do you know if it's true or not? Is he or she having a long distance affair?

Your courses of action when your partner is living in another city are limited, but there still are ways that you can determine whether your partner is cheating on you or not. If you have the opportunity to visit your partner you can place tracking software on their computer, place GPS or digital recording devices around the vehicle they are using to see if their stories correlate with the data you are finding, hiring a private investigator to track their movements for a set period of time, and many others.

If you have a partner who is home regularly between trips you have the added advantage of semen detection kits, cellphone tracking software to recover deleted text messages, as well as ways to talk with your partner and notice any body language anomalies that point towards lying.
It may seem that long-distance relationships leave you feeling alone and marooned, often in more than one way, but there are a number of gadgets and techniques you can employ and tailor to fit the specifics of your situation.

All that is required is an open mind and a willingness to try.